You need space – the past is so much inside, a junkyard of dead things, there is no space for the present to enter.  That junkyard goes on dreaming about the future, so half the place is filled with that which is no more and half the place is filled with that which is not yet.  And the present? – it simply waits outside the door. OSHO

If you go on throwing responsibility on the other, remember that you will always remain a slave because nobody can change the other.  How can you change the other?  Has anyone ever changed the other?  And because you throw the responsibility on the other, you will never see that the basic responsibility is yours.  The basic change is needed there inside you!  OSHO